Luggage
You offer flowers to your leader and compliment them on their lip ring. You think that by doing this they might carry your luggage.
Picture this big, strong leader. They actually love flowers and feel flattered by your compliment! But being the leader, they can't help wondering why they should have to carry your luggage…
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Unconvinced by your flattery, the leader refuses to carry your luggage, so you get on your knees (に) and beg them to carry it.
On top of being a strong leader, they also have a very kind heart, so your begging convinces them and they agree to carry your luggage.